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Top 10 signs why boyfriend or girlfriend cheats

Is It Human Nature To Cheat?

Our Human behavior is not always governed by the vows that were taken and the promises that were made. Human behavior is a product of our innate human nature, our individual experience and environment. Today there are over 4000 distinct mammal species alive on earth and only 3% of them are monogamous. According to Stephen T. Emlen, an expert on evolutionary behavior, monogamy is rare. He describes a great difference between social, genetic and sexual monogamy. Some scientist believe that  monogamy, especially sexual monogamy is not natural to human species. If that is true why do some marriages last forever? Is love enough to make us monogamous?
Would you leave your dog alone with a steak? Of course not but you can’t hate the dog for doing what is in its nature, or can you?
Signs That We Are Cheating
10.) We stop confiding in you and stop seeking advice from you.
9.) We join the gym, go on a diet, try to improve our appearance.
8.) We start deleting all incoming emails when we used to let them accumulate
7.) We suddenly want more sex, more often.
6.) We seem less comfortable around you.
5.) We are emotionally disconnected.
4.) We appear to be confused and worried most of the time.
3.) We compensate our guilt by saying I love you more often.
2.) We are not so needy of your attention.

1.) Trust your gut!

Instinct is the most powerful indicator of a cheating lover. 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating is correct.  50% of men who feel their lover is cheating are right. The 1st clue is seldom obvious. Go with the “feeling” that something is different.
Most people had no intention of going down this path.  Your emotions are fighting for control over your logic and reason.  You are being pulled in different directions but please know that someone out there loves you. Some scientists say that loving more than one person is difficult to do, they don’t know you. 

When you recognize that it is not good then why do it? Think about your actions, you might regret it in the end. :)