Did You Choose the Right Boyfriend?
You already have a boyfriend but you doubt whether you had a right person for you or not? To be sure please check the signs below:
More sacrifice
Love really need a sacrifice. Victim of time, pulse, and also feeling the material. Trouble is, after the count is calculated, how much do you sacrifice more than he does? Indeed, within a relationship can not calculate benefit and loss, but if you are better to sacrifice a lot while he accept, it is also unfair. You are willing to sacrifice time with friends and family for him, unfortunately he never did it for you.
Friends began to move away
Before he became a lover, friends surround you. Circumstances change one hundred eighty degrees when you’re having in love with him. Your friends disappear one by one, away from you. Do not rush to blame your friends.
Hot and cold relationships
In the early days of a relationship, you and your partner in a fun and warm, but here he turned increasingly to the indifferent and cold.
Too much effort
You are often too attempt to simply meet him. You can always find a way to play to his house, whether it was deliberately eating at restaurants near the house, or suddenly come to his house to give something. In fact, you’d have trouble voluntary organizing the trip to meet him at a place outside the city offices. Though, to be honest he did not respond with enthusiasm, all the effort comes from you.
Lose weight
Weight loss before and after you hook up with shrinkage of 3-4 kg. There are two possible occurrence of this shrinkage, you die-hard diet to meet the standards of ideal body in his eyes.
Not confident
You always feel sorry to have been incorrectly selected a dress, accessories, even words, each out to meet him. The presence of a spouse should be able to boost confidence and calm you, not vice versa, making you feel awkward and scared.
Every girl or woman is looking for Mr. Right, the man who will sweep her off her feet and be her knight in shining armor. For some, the quest is easy: They find Mr. Right in one of the first few guys they date. Others need to pick through a haystack in order to find him. Here is how to weed out the bad seeds to find the perfect boyfriend.
1. Look around: Do you have any male friends who might have a love interest in you that you have overlooked? Boyfriends who have first been friends already know your crazy habits and quirks. They usually make great boyfriends because they have come to love the real you.
2. If none of those friends is the one, keep looking in the right places. Stay out of the bars and nightclubs, where you're more likely to find Mr. Right Now than Mr. Right. Try meeting people in the store, at the park, at work or anywhere people hang out, and just talk. Libraries are also a great meeting place, but you have to whisper.
3. Once you've found Mr. I Think He's the Right One, spend time with him--but don't overdo it. Too much of a good thing will get on your nerves and his. Instead, spend a few days each week hanging out and a few days apart.
4. Never give yourself away too quickly. No one wants someone they can have completely so easily. Love yourself enough not to involve yourself in sexual acts before you are sure this is the one. Looking for Mr. Right is a lot different than looking for Mr. Fun or Mr. Good Time. It involves patience, persistence and devotion--not only to him, but also to yourself.