BREAK UP HELP FOR THOSE WHO ARE IN LOVE WITH EX

Break Up Help For Those Still In Love With Their Exs

Still in love with your ex? Looking around for break up help? Well now you find
yourself without the person you're still in love with you either have to find help to
move on or help to win them back.

If you feel you should move on then the kind of break up help you're going to need
depends largely on how bad the relationship and the end of the relationship was. If it
was a major drama that really and seriously took it out of you emotionally, then
without a doubt you're going to need plenty of time to recover and get over the
relationship.


Taking care of yourself is always key after any emotional turmoil, but in this case
where you've been tossed around and you still feel that you love your ex, it is even
more key. Don't give yourself a hard time for any decisions you made that you now
feel in retrospect were wrong decisions. You did the best you could with what you
had, so relax and allow yourself to be human.

Make sure that the break up help you need is to look after you and not to look after
your ex and what they might be going through. You have left them behind and
though you still have strong feelings for them, they are no longer your responsibility.
If you feel you need to talk to a professional to help you put the whole relationship
into perspective then you should do this as soon as possible. In a situation where
you're still feeling vulnerable and emotional, the sooner you regain your composure
and any eroded self-esteem the better.

If the kind of break up help you're looking for is help to get your ex back, then you
need to do some of the things outlined above, but then you also have to make sure
you're implementing a strategy to bring you full circle so you can make up with your
ex.
So follow what's already been outlined: taking care of yourself first and foremost,
talk to a professional if you feel you have to and forget about your ex for a few weeks
while you recover self-esteem and direction.

Once you're through the initial re-grouping stage, you then make contact with your
ex. Ask for a meeting somewhere neutral. When you meet your ex, calmly and
without being overly emotional explain that you still have feelings for them. Explain
that you've had time to think and you'd like another chance to make your relationship
work. Take the time to listen to your ex and hear their point of view, you don't
necessarily have to agree with them, but you need to listen.

You then give them time to think and leave to wait for them to call you. Truth is it
could go either way. Using this break up help guarantees nothing. Just know this,
you have given it your best shot so there is no need to spend endless hours beating
yourself up.